REAL QUESTIONS. REAL RELATIONSHIPS. STRAIGHT ANSWERS.
DEAR CHRISTOPHER.
Something going on in your relationship that you can't quite figure out? Maybe you don't know what to do, who to talk to, or whether you're even asking the right question. Ask me. Every letter gets an answer. Free.
HOW IT WORKS.
Tell me what's happening and what you'd like to understand. You don't need to have the right words or even know exactly what to ask.
Every letter gets a personal answer. Free.
I'll respond privately to the email address you provide.
Some letters may be selected for publication on my blog and social media. You choose the names used in your story, identifying details are removed, and nothing is published without your approval.
ASK CHRISTOPHER.
Tell me your story. Ask me your question. I'll answer.
READ THE LETTERS.
Real questions from real people. Straight answers about relationships, boundaries, consent, and everything in between.
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PRIVACY, CONSENT & SUBMISSION TERMS
Every letter receives a private response at the email address provided. Your contact information will never be published or sold.
You may choose the names used in your letter. Please avoid including identifying information about yourself or others. If your letter is selected for publication, I may edit it for clarity, length, and privacy. Nothing will be published on my website or social media without your separate approval of the edited version.
By submitting, you confirm that you are at least 18 years old, that your submission is truthful to the best of your knowledge, and that you have the right to share the material you provide. You authorize me to read, store, and respond to your letter privately. Submission alone does not authorize public use.
Dear Christopher provides general relationship advice and educational information, not therapy, medical care, legal advice, or emergency assistance. Submitting a letter does not establish a coaching or professional-client relationship.
Please do not submit emergencies or situations requiring immediate assistance. If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services.
By submitting your letter, you acknowledge and agree to these terms.