ABOUT CHRISTOPHER
I’m Christopher Seright, a relationship, leadership, and brand coach and BDSM practitioner. I grew up in a Church of Christ family, surrounded by certainty about how people were supposed to live, and spent much of my life following rules that were never mine. Since leaving that world, I’ve served in the Army, built businesses, led people, raised children, navigated recovery, and spent nearly three decades immersed in BDSM and power exchange. Those experiences taught me the same lesson repeatedly: how we handle power, pressure, boundaries, responsibility, and choice shapes what we build and who we become.
EXPERIENCE ISN’T THE SAME AS AUTHORITY.
My life doesn’t make me an expert on yours. It does mean I’m unlikely to be frightened by its complexity.
I’ve been defensive, communicated poorly, missed my own patterns, and hurt people I cared about. Some relationships have been repaired. Others haven’t.
Knowing a lot about relationships doesn’t prevent you from screwing up your own. I’m currently going through my fifth divorce.
Longevity doesn’t prove a relationship was healthy, and divorce doesn’t mean everything within it failed. Neither excuses me from examining my part in what ended.
I don’t teach from perfection. I teach from practice.
HOW I WORK
BDSM, leadership, and business taught me how power, consent, boundaries, trust, and responsibility shape human behavior across different contexts.
Those experiences became the basis of the Sir Christopher Method, built around observation, awareness, regulation, differentiation, discernment, authenticity, and self-leadership.
I help people recognize their patterns, make deliberate choices, and take responsibility for what happens next, whether we’re working with relationships, leadership, brand, or power exchange.
WHO I WORK WITH
I work with individuals and couples across monogamous, non-monogamous, polyamorous, queer, and kink communities, as well as business owners, executives, founders, and people building something of their own.
You don’t need to share my identities, experiences, or beliefs. I won’t tell you what your relationship, work, or life should look like.
I’ll help you see what you’re actually building.
I’M STILL DOING THE WORK.
I won’t ask you to do work I consider myself above doing. I’m still doing mine.
START WHERE YOU ARE.
All coaching begins with a focused, 60–90 minute, text-based Clarity Session.
$99 • 60–90 minutes • Text-based