BDSM + KINK
CURIOUS ABOUT BDSM?
START SOMEWHERE YOU CAN STILL SAY NO. Consent-centered Professional Dominant services, kink coaching, and private BDSM experiences for individuals and couples, from first-time exploration to experienced play. 21+ • Denver + Colorado Foothills • Travel Available
YOU DON’T HAVE TO KNOW WHAT YOU’RE DOING YET.
Being curious about BDSM doesn’t mean you already know what kind of scene you want, what role fits you, or even what some of the terminology means.
I specialize in introducing newcomers to BDSM and kink. You don’t need to own equipment, choose a label, or arrive with a perfectly constructed list of fantasies. You can show up with questions, curiosities, things you’ve imagined, and things you already know you don’t want.
We’ll figure out what interests you before we decide whether anything needs to happen physically.
Curiosity is enough to begin the conversation.
THE SCENE STARTS BEFORE I TOUCH YOU.
Before we play, we talk about what interests you, what makes you nervous, what you’ve experienced before, what you don’t want, and what you might want to explore.
We establish boundaries, limits, safewords and signals, physical considerations, and aftercare before the scene begins, then we keep communicating once it does.
You can slow something down, change your mind, or stop.
Paying me does not buy access to your body. Submission can involve giving someone else control within agreed boundaries. Your agency remains yours.
EXPLORING WITH A PARTNER?
Sometimes the hardest part of exploring BDSM isn’t the BDSM. It’s figuring out how to talk about it.
One of you may be more curious or experienced than the other, or you may both be interested but have no idea what you actually want to try.
TALK ABOUT IT TOGETHER
$99 • 60–90 MINUTES • LIVE TEXT-BASED
I create a private group text and help you explore what each of you wants, where your interests overlap, where they don’t, and what boundaries matter.
If you’re the person who wants to introduce BDSM into the relationship and don’t know how to bring it up, we can start there too.
My job isn’t to convince either of you to participate. It’s to help you understand each other well enough to decide what comes next.
PRIVATE BDSM EXPERIENCES
BUILT AROUND YOU.
I provide private, in-person Professional Dominant experiences for individuals and couples, from first-time exploration to experienced play.
My primary specialties are impact play and restraint-based bondage, with intensity ranging from exploratory and instructional to considerably more intense play.
Sensory Play • Power Exchange • Protocol • Role Play • Wax • Blindfolds • Orgasm Control • Predicament-Style Restraint
Other activities can be discussed during consultation. Sexual elements may be part of some experiences, but they are never assumed, guaranteed, or required.
Everything we do is negotiated before the scene and remains subject to ongoing consent once we begin.
I do not offer rope bondage or shibari. Blood, intoxication, and weapons are hard limits.
$400 / HOUR
One-hour bookings are available, along with longer sessions and half-day experiences.
Aftercare is included and does not count against your booked scene time.
I do not host. You arrange an appropriate private location, and I travel to you. Location costs and applicable travel expenses are additional.
Denver + Colorado Foothills • Travel Available
HOW IT WORKS
WE TALK FIRST.
01 • INQUIRY
Tell me what you’re curious about and what kind of experience you’re considering.
02 • TEXT CONSULTATION
We talk about what you’re interested in, your boundaries, relevant physical considerations, and whether we’re a good fit to play together.
03 • NEGOTIATION
We build the scene around what we mutually agree to, including activities, limits, intensity, safewords and signals, aftercare, location, and duration.
04 • BOOKING
A 50% non-refundable deposit reserves your scene. You’ll provide identification and emergency-contact information when we meet.
05 • SCENE + AFTERCARE
We play within what we’ve negotiated, keep communicating throughout, and move into aftercare when the scene ends.
Private experiences are 21+ and require informed, sober consent.
Agreement exists where both of our boundaries overlap. That’s where we play.
MORE THAN ONE PRACTITIONER.
ONE INTENTIONAL EXPERIENCE.
For something more immersive, I create customized experiences that bring multiple practitioners into a single, intentionally designed experience.
Depending on what we build, an experience may combine BDSM and kink with Reiki, energy work, or other practices offered by the practitioners involved.
The practitioners, modalities, structure, duration, and boundaries are determined during planning. These experiences are built individually rather than offered from a preset menu.
*CUSTOM PRICING
I’VE BEEN DOING THIS SINCE 1998.
I’ve been involved in BDSM and kink for nearly three decades, experiencing power exchange from both sides. I’m a dominant-leaning switch personally, while my professional scene work is offered specifically as a Professional Dominant.
I spent approximately a decade moderating BDSM-Library and have been involved in leather community spaces, with decades of hands-on experience in impact play, negotiation, consent, and power exchange.
I’m also Reiki II trained, CPR and first-aid trained, and previously received Army combat-lifesaver training.
Experience matters, but longevity alone doesn’t make someone trustworthy.
Knowing how to use an implement matters. Knowing what you’re doing with the person on the receiving end matters more.
D/s CONTRACT WRITING
PUT THE DYNAMIC INTO WORDS.
A D/s agreement helps turn assumptions into conversations and conversations into something you both clearly understand.
Together, we work through what authority means in your relationship, what is and isn’t being relinquished, expectations and responsibilities, boundaries and limits, protocols or rituals, and how the dynamic can be reviewed, renegotiated, paused, or ended.
$275
60–90 MINUTE LIVE TEXT CONSULTATION • CUSTOMIZED PDF • ONE REVISION
Both partners participate through a private group text while I guide the negotiation and help clarify the agreement you’re actually making. From that conversation, I create a customized PDF built around your dynamic, not a generic template with your names dropped into it.
A D/s agreement does not replace ongoing consent. Either person can withdraw consent, renegotiate the dynamic, or leave at any time.
This is a relationship agreement, not legal advice or a legally enforceable contract.
SEMINARS • PRESENTATIONS • RETREATS
BDSM EDUCATION WITHOUT THE MYSTIQUE AND BULLSHIT.
I’m available for private groups, community organizations, retreats, conferences, and events looking for practical, consent-centered BDSM and kink education.
Topics can include BDSM and kink fundamentals, consent and negotiation, impact play, D/s dynamics, aftercare, relationship agreements, introducing kink into existing relationships, and customized subjects developed around your audience.
Programs can be designed for newcomers, experienced audiences, or groups somewhere in between.
PRICING BY ARRANGEMENT
Travel available.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT.
Tell me what you’re curious about and what brought you here. You don’t need the right terminology or a fully formed idea of what you want to explore.
We start with a conversation. If we’re a good fit, we’ll decide what comes next from there.