Protocol & Negotiations
A structured guide for pre-scene discussion between Dominant and client. --- 1. Identity & Basic Information Preferred name / scene name Pronouns Emergency contact (already verified on intake) --- 2. Experience Level New, intermediate, experienced Prior exposure to D/s dynamics Previous positive experiences Previous negative experiences or triggers Specific skills, tools, or dynamics the client is familiar with --- 3. Physical Health & Physical Limits (Professional, safety-focused topics only) Existing injuries (backs, shoulders, knees, wrists, etc.) Chronic pain conditions Joint limitations or flexibility concerns Skin sensitivities or conditions Allergies (latex, scents, metal, etc.) Medications that affect pain tolerance or circulation Concerns about mobility, balance, or endurance --- 4. Mental/Emotional Health Considerations (Non-diagnostic) Anxiety, panic tendencies, or known triggers Words, tones, or actions that may cause distress Topics to avoid Activities that promote grounding and regulation (Not collecting medical diagnoses — just scene-relevant information.) --- 5. Negotiated Activities (Allowed / Maybe / No) Break down by type, depending on services offered: D/s Dynamics Command/obedience Protocols, positions, posture Tone (authoritative, stern, ritualistic, controlled, neutral) Mindfulness-based D/s or psychological structure Impact Light/medium/heavy Implements the client is comfortable with Implements off-limits Areas of the body to avoid Sensation / Physicality (Non-sexual) Temperature (ice, warm objects) Textures Pressure Physical restraint or containment Blindfolds Breath control only in legal, ethical, controlled non-risk formats Role Dynamics Rituals Structure Spoken lines or responses Silence protocols --- 6. Hard Limits Anything that is a firm no. This section must be explicit and non-negotiable. Include: Physical hard limits Psychological hard limits Language/tone limits Touch limits Situational triggers --- 7. Soft Limits Activities the client is open to but with: Restrictions Intensity caps Context-specific boundaries Time limits “Only with warm-up” conditions --- 8. Pain Tolerance Calibration Preferred intensity range (1–10) Past experiences with pain levels Physical signs of overwhelm Emotional signs of overwhelm Safe signals (especially when gagged or silent) --- 9. BDSM Communication Signals Safeword (Green, Yellow, & Red) Slow-down word (e.g., yellow) Non-verbal stop signal Non-verbal check-in signal Protocol for emotional drop or unexpected response --- 10. Aftercare Needs Physical aftercare (water, blankets, sitting quietly, grounding) Emotional aftercare (reassurance, structure, calm tone) Preferred duration Aftercare that is unwelcome or uncomfortable --- 11. Expected Outcome of the Scene Ask: What do you want to feel? What do you want to release or experience? What do you want to avoid feeling? What is the intent or purpose of the session? What does “success” look like for you in this scene? --- 12. Risk Awareness & Consent Confirmation Understanding of the nature of consensual power exchange Understanding of marks, soreness, or short-term emotional intensity Agreement to rules and boundaries Confirmation that all contact is non-sexual Session can stop at any time Consent can be withdrawn at any time --- 13. Dominant’s Boundaries & Conditions No sexual contact No nudity No illegal activities No alcohol or substances prior Respect for time and communication protocols Compliance expectations --- 14. Logistics Session length Rate agreed Deposit confirmation Location & arrival protocol Clothing expectations What to bring What not to bring --- 15. Final Confirmation “Do you feel informed, safe, and ready to proceed?” “Do you have any remaining questions?” Signature or verbal confirmation
Terms of Service**
Welcome to the esteemed domain of Sir Christopher The Great, where the pursuit of empowerment and exploration converge in a safe, respectful, and consensual environment. This section outlines the terms of service applicable to all clients and visitors engaging with our professional dominance services and expertise.
**Acceptance of Terms**
By engaging with Sir Christopher The Great’s services, you acknowledge and accept these Terms of Service. This agreement forms the foundation of our professional relationship, underscoring our mutual commitment to integrity, privacy, and respect.
**Confidentiality and Privacy**
Your trust is of paramount importance. All interactions are conducted under strict confidentiality to ensure a safe space for personal and transformative experiences. We pledge to protect your privacy with the utmost care, treating all personal information with the discretion and respect it deserves.
**Empowerment Through Boundaries**
Boundaries are the cornerstones of our practice. Prior to any session, clear communication ensures mutual understanding and consent. Our services are tailored to empower your personal journey while celebrating your unique path to self-discovery. Together, we create an environment where limits are respected and explored safely.
**Commitment to Excellence**
Dedicated to professional excellence, we strive to deliver services that inspire and uplift. Our approach is rooted in compassion and expertise, championing an experience that aligns with your aspirations and personal growth. Let Sir Christopher guide you toward a deeper understanding of self, enhanced confidence, and newfound strength.
**Contact and Communication**
We invite you to reach out with any questions or to express your interest in engaging with our services. Through open communication, we can ensure that each experience is uniquely tailored to meet your desires within a supportive framework.
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