About Me

I am Sir Christopher the Great, a professional Dominant specializing in structured, intentional, and highly personalized power-exchange experiences. My work is rooted in discipline, precision, and the belief that true dominance is not performance or bravado—it is craftsmanship. It is the subtle balance of control and care, intensity and restraint, authority and understanding.

My journey began long before I took on a title. I have always been drawn to structure: the psychology of leadership, the natural rhythm of command, and the quiet influence that comes from unshakable presence. Over years of experience, training, study, and hands-on practice, I developed a style of dominance that is both deeply grounded and sharply refined. I do not rush, I do not improvise recklessly, and I do not treat power lightly. Every dynamic I accept is approached with purpose, preparation, and respect.

I was forged through five years in the U.S. Army and a decade of federal service with Homeland Security—where discipline, command, and responsibility became more than skills; they became embodied truths. Along the way, I built communities as a nonprofit organizer, shaped the physical world as a self-made remodeling contractor, and learned the deepest meaning of devotion as a father to two daughters. I discovered BDSM in 1998 and later served as a forum moderator for one of the largest BDSM platforms, helping guide conversation, ethics, and education. My dominance is not performative—it is protective, intentional, and rooted in lived experience, structure, and sovereign power.

I consider my work a craft—an art of directing energy, tension, and focus. Clients come to me for many reasons: some seek discipline, some seek accountability, some seek catharsis, challenge, structure, or release. Others come simply because they need a space where they do not have to lead. Whatever the motivation, my intention is the same: to create an environment where you can experience the clarity that comes from surrendering to someone who understands how to guide it.

Ethics and consent form the foundation of everything I do. My sessions are fully negotiated, non-sexual, and grounded in careful communication. I am direct, but I am not careless. I am demanding, but never irresponsible. I expect honesty, effort, and respect, and in return, I offer an unwavering presence, steady control, and the discipline of someone who takes this work seriously.

My dominance is calm, commanding, and deliberate. You will not find theatrics here. Instead, you will encounter intention, structure, and a dynamic tailored to your limits, your mindset, and your growth. Whether the scene is soft or strict, psychological or physical, quiet or intense—it is always crafted with precision.

Clients describe my presence as grounding, challenging, clarifying, and transformative. I guide without hesitation. I push with purpose. And I hold space for the emotional undertones that make power-exchange meaningful.

This is not merely an experience—it is an immersion. A controlled environment where you can safely explore the edges of your mind, your patterns, and your surrender. I take that responsibility seriously.

If you are seeking a Dominant who practices with intention, mastery, and unwavering boundaries, you will find that here. But understand this: my role is not to entertain your fantasies; it is to shape an experience that is safe, structured, and authentic to the dynamic we build together.

What I Offer:
• Bondage / floor work – (bond, artistic, tie to furniture)  
•	Impact - (bare hand, paddles, canes, silicone paddle, whip, crops) 
•	Creative Torture
•	Flogging
•	Sensation/Senses – (eyes, ears, touch, smell, taste)
•	Worship Receiver – (body, scent, leather, creative)
•	Fire Massage 
•	Role-play - (Trauma work, for fun, for punishment, for reward, for exploration)
•	Caretaker - (pet, spoon, sooth, consul, guide, encourage, praise, etc.) 
•	Human Furniture 
•	Cuddles

You are welcome to step forward—if you are willing to do so with honesty, discipline, and respect.