Ethics & Consent Standards
Power doesn’t live in the role. It lives in the agreement.
This page is my public commitment to clear consent, real safety, and adult accountability. If we work together, these standards are not optional. They are the foundation.
Quick Commitments
Consent is ongoing. It is active, revisitable, and respected at every stage.
No coercion. There is no pressure, manipulation, or obligation—ever.
Safety over fantasy. No desire or dynamic overrides physical, emotional, or psychological safety.
Adult accountability. I take responsibility for my role, my conduct, and the containers I create.
Clear exit paths. Anyone may pause, renegotiate, or end a dynamic without punishment.
Aftercare matters. Integration and follow-up are part of responsible work, not an optional add-on.
How consent works with me
1) We start with screening and context.
Not because I’m suspicious. Because I’m responsible. I need to understand what you’re asking for, why you want it, and whether I’m the right person to provide it.
2) We name boundaries clearly.
What’s on the table. What’s off the table. What requires extra care. If something is a “maybe,” we treat it like a “no” until it becomes a clean “yes.”
3) We set communication rules.
How you’ll signal “pause.” How you’ll signal “stop.” How we’ll check in. This is structure, not awkwardness.
4) We agree on scope.
Time, setting, tone, intensity, and purpose. Clear scope prevents messy experiences.
5) We follow through with aftercare and integration.
Aftercare is not a reward. It’s professional hygiene. We close the loop.
Non-negotiables
- I do not work with anyone who can’t communicate consent clearly.
- I do not tolerate boundary-pushing, last-minute surprises, or “convince me” behavior.
- No intoxication during sessions. Clear mind, clear consent.
- Safer practices are mandatory. If you don’t care about safety, I’m not your guy.
- Disrespect, harassment, or attempts to negotiate around consent ends the conversation.
If any of this feels “too strict,” good. That’s the point.
Intake + Personalized Support
When you apply, you’ll complete an intake that helps me understand your goals, experience level, boundaries, and what you’re actually seeking beneath the surface request.
From there, I create a personalized starting point for our work: what to focus on first, what to move slowly with, and what structure will help you feel safe and steady.
I also offer optional AI-supported reflection between sessions. Think of it as guided journaling and integration prompts aligned with your program, not “therapy,” and not a replacement for real conversation. It’s a tool for clarity, accountability, and momentum.
If something feels off
If you feel confused, activated, or regretful after an interaction, I want to know. Responsible leadership includes repair.
We’ll slow down, name what happened, and decide what’s needed: clarification, adjustment, or ending the container cleanly. You will not be punished for honest communication.
Apply only with intention.
If you’re ready for clear structure, consent-forward leadership, and honest work, you can apply here.
